For those of us who, for various reasons, have never been able to convince our wives or significant others to spank us, our "solution" is to find a professional disciplinarian or, failing that, a pro domme who features spanking as one of her favorite activities, to administer punishment. Unless someone has more information than I do about how to locate professional disciplinarians, my experience is that there are many of them and they are in locations that are hard to reach for
someone who lives, as I do, in the Washington, D.C., area. So, while I've seen a few professional disciplinarians when able to do so, mainly I've relied on a local domme who is actually quite proficient in spanking -- once gave me the harshest spanking I've ever received. But there's a difference between being spanked in a dungeon and spanked in a domestic setting with all the rituals that professional disciplinarians utilize: street dress, lowering your underpants herself, OTK, handspanking followed by hair brush and/or paddle, followed by lots of other instruments applied in various postures. If there's a list of professional disciplinarians out there, I'd certainly like to have it.

I've mainly monitored other sites

...but I crave spankings when I feel they are deserved (which is often). I love, love, love my
wife but our relationship is entirely vanilla. I tried to interest her years ago in disciplining me
for a serious infraction but she would have none of it, thought it perverted. So I have had to
seek my punishments from professional disciplinarians, which I do with some regularity.